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The Gift of Life, The Reality Behind Donor Organ Retrieval

IN THE PRESS

Drawing on her experience as a transplant coordinator, the author leads the reader through the modern world of organ transplants. Even in states like New Jersey where the law strongly encourages donation, demand for organs will always be much larger than the supply, and the time critical nature of organ harvesting places additional pressures on those involved, from recipients, medical staff and the soon-to-be-bereaved. Although the work begins clinically with the definition of brain death, the author acknowledges that the process is inherently emotional, presenting ethical quandaries even professionals may struggle with. These issues are explored through a series of anecdotes, and while the author is clearly on the pro-donation side, the book does not shortchange the challenges [faced by] the families of the donors. The author's prose is straightforward and clear; professional jargon does not sabotage clarity. The context is quite specific, not just American but East Coast, but Graf does a competent job of using particular experiences to fuel larger conversation. One flaw may be the book's brevity. At just over 200 pages, there are profound limitations to the depth to which the author can explore the issues; some readers may come away wanting more.

Seriously, the book should be read by anyone contemplating becoming an organ donor, any of the 121,274 folks waiting on the transplant list, or family and friends of the former. Scratch that, this book should be read by anyone looking to make a lasting gift... With Graf's intense review of the transplant procurement and transition process we are allowed to contemplate the feelings of organ recipients, organ donor families, and even occasionally, the clinical staff.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I was delighted to find this book providing a rare glimpse into the niche profession of working in an Organ Procurement Organization. What I didn’t expect was for the book to be such a pertinent tool in assisting me in that profession in understanding a lot of the clinical concepts without going over my head. I have read, highlighted, and regularly refer back to some of the passages in the book to assist me in my career working with families in organ donation. I feel that Ms. Graf’s career background of nursing and then organ donation was perfect for her to write of her encounters. Her raw, honest style in conveying her incredible experiences along with her frustrations are refreshing and directly applicable to some of my own encounters in this field. Her accounts of the donating patients she worked with are both touching and heartbreaking and I can empathize with the maddening feeling of when a person’s personal bias gets in the way of saving a potential recipient’s life…medical “professionals” included. She nailed it on the head when she wrote about loving your family on a deeper level after serving in this career. I’ve always cherished the time I have with family but it is different now and it’s comforting knowing there are people out there like Ms. Graf who can empathize with this challenging and humbling profession and the new way it makes you look at life. Although, I do think that those NOT working in this field will also find this book helpful as you may have to make a choice whether for yourself or someone you know on the matter of donation; either way it’s an intriguing read. This is a pioneering work in this profession. I hope to see more from Ms. Graf and hope it inspires other professionals to take up the pen. Thank you so much Ms. Graf for writing this book!!!

 

 

Amazon Customer Review; Robin M. 8/2014

 

 

 

Publishers Weekly 2013-2014

Roberta E. Winter New York Journal of Books 2014-02-16

Amazon Customer Review; Robin M. 8/2014

BIO

I'm a nurse on a mission to raise awareness about organ donation. 21 people die every day in the US when the organ they need to save their lives never comes. I wrote this book after working for one of the most successful Organ Procurement Organizations in the world. It was a life changing experience and I felt there were many important lessons I learned to share. Organ donation can help a grieving family for many years after death. It is a very rare opportunity as only 1-2% of all deaths can potentially be a donor. 

In this book I explain in easy to understand terms the concept of brain death, how the organ donor programs function, how the Transplant Coordinators are trained, and I share multiple stories of donor cases. I share my own feelings, failures and successes while working in that field. My ultimate goal is to educate the public on the seemingly secretive process and hopefully increase the number of people who will say yes to donation!

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